Can you toot your own horn? I am so not good at that. I’ve gotten much better over the years but I always found it a painful and uncomfortable thing that I abhorred with every fiber of my being. Interviews for jobs gave me the willies because I was so bad at tooting my own horn. I was raised with the attitude that tooting one’s own horn was barbaric and braggarts were regarded with something akin to the plague – to be avoided at all costs! Humility was placed high on the values measure. I am however, very good at bragging up family and friends and their accomplishments!
Yet, we all have talents or gifts to share. They weren’t meant to be hidden under a bushel basket. So, I am in the process of publishing a novel I wrote. I have to write a blurb about myself. It’s still tortuous! But, needs must! In this world of “Influencers” and the seemingly insatiable appetite for “likes” and followers I feel woefully unprepared. How about you? Are you good at toting your own horn?
I think this is more common in women than men, although I stand to be corrected. It’s the way we were raised. Go for it, Carol. Shout out your accomplishments. I am woman, hear me roar!! 😀😊
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LOL thanks Jane
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This is AWESOME Carol, and I am thrilled you let us know! Congratulations!
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Thanks so much! ❤
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absolutely!
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❤
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I’m not good at toting my own horn, but tote I must if I want to sell my books. Author bios are written in the third person, so imagine that she’s a dear friend or relative 🙂
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That’s helpful, Rosaliene, thank you!
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Carol, I’m happy to report that I have successfully purchased your eBook today. For others like me who don’t have a Kindle, your book is now held in my Amazon eBook Library, using their Kindle Cloud Reader.
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I am so grateful!!!! Thanks so very much!
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This is wonderful Carol that the book is complete. You’re a talented lady and there is no shame in letting the world know. I’m getting there too. If I get a compliment, I accept it with good grace and gratitude.
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I can accept compliments easily enough I’m just not very good about writing bios and such….especially when it requires bragging myself up. LOL
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I hope you do a great job of writing this. ❤️
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I actually sought the help of my daughter, she was wonderful! She is also a writer so she gets me. LOL
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That’s great. 👍👍👍
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I’m not. I find it much easier talking about my faults and mess ups.
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Yeah, me too!
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I’ve gotten better. I think of it now as false humility when I don’t acknowledge my gifts. Yet, many times I don’t! You could pretend to be writing about someone else—step outside yourself. YES! who am I kidding?! It’s hard, but necessary. Good Luck.
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Thanks so much, Ruth.
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This is something that I have to actively work towards too. But hey, you should feel so proud that you’ve written a novel and are moving forward with publishing it!!
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Thanks so much
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